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What is a chastity? How to choose a penis lock and how to wear it correctly.

What is a Chastity?


Chastity - cock cage is a device designed to prevent the user from touching or stimulating their penis. It is often used in the context of BDSM play or relationships involving sexual control, especially in play involving control, power, and submission. The purpose of using a cock cage can be to maintain sexual restraint, control pleasure, or to enforce a form of long-term chastity.


A chastity is usually made of metal, plastic, or silicone and can be designed to be locked with a key. Often the key is held by the controlling partner, symbolizing the transfer of power or control over the wearer's sexual desires.




How to Measure for a Cock Cage?


To measure the right size for a penis cage, make sure the device fits comfortably but is tight enough to function. Too tight can cause discomfort, pain, or affect blood circulation, while too loose can cause loss of control. Here are the basic steps to take:


1. Measure the Base Ring Size:


• Definition: This is the circumference around the base of the penis and scrotum.


• How to measure:


• Use a soft strip (or cloth measuring tape) to wrap around the base of the penis and scrotum when not erect.


• Measure the circumference (circumference) and divide by 3.14 to get the diameter.


• Choose the base ring size that is closest to this number. Typically standard sizes are 40mm, 45mm, and 50mm.



2. Measure Cage Length:


• Definition: This is the length of the cage that covers the penis.


• How to measure:


• Measure the length of the flaccid penis, from the base (the part that meets the body) to the tip.


• Choose a cage size that is close to the measured length. It is usually better to choose a cage that is slightly shorter to keep the penis in a flaccid state.


3. Measure Cage Diameter:


• Definition: The circumference of the flaccid penis inside the cage.


• How to measure:


• Use a soft string to wrap around the shaft of the penis at the midpoint to measure the circumference.


• Based on the measured circumference, choose a cage size that fits snugly but is not too tight.


4. Check for comfort:


After choosing a size, check to see if the buckle causes discomfort, pain, or red marks. If these problems occur, a size change may be necessary.


It is important to choose a penis lock that is slightly adjustable to fit your body and is comfortable for long-term use.


How to Put on a Penis Lock


Putting on a penis lock should be done carefully and step by step to ensure comfort, safety and to avoid injury. Here are the basic steps:


1. Preparation


• Cleanse: Make sure the penis and scrotum are clean to avoid infection or skin irritation when wearing the lock for a long time.


• Relax: Make sure the penis is not erect before starting. This will make it easier to put on the lock.


2. Put on the Base Ring


• Separate the scrotum and penis: Slide each side of the scrotum through the base ring first. Then, gently pull the penis through the ring. This ring will sit close to the base, enclosing both the penis and scrotum.


• Adjust: Make sure the ring is not too tight to avoid restricting blood circulation, but not too loose to avoid falling off. A little space around the base is ideal.


3. Assemble the Cage


• Place the penis in the cage: While the penis is flaccid, gently slide it into the cage. If you have difficulty inserting the penis, you can use a small amount of water-based lubricant to help it slide in more easily.


• Ensure proper placement: The cage should cover the entire penis and the head of the penis should be comfortably positioned in the cage, not pressed or bent.


4. Secure the lock


• Install the lock: Once the cage is assembled, the holes in the cage and the base ring will fit together. Insert the lock into the holes to secure the two parts together.


• Lock: Lock with the key or the device's locking mechanism.


5. Check for comfort


• Check circulation: Make sure you do not feel pain, itching, or signs of poor circulation (such as bluish skin).


• Adjust as needed: If the buckle feels too tight or uncomfortable, remove it and readjust the size or position.


6. Monitoring and care


• Hygiene care: Clean the area around the penis buckle regularly with warm water and mild soap, especially if you wear it for a long time.


• Periodic removal: If you wear the buckle for a long time, check and remove it periodically to clean it thoroughly and make sure there are no health problems.


Note:


• If it is your first time wearing the chastity, wear it for a short time to get used to it and gradually increase the time if you feel comfortable.


• Never wear the cock cage too tight or feel pain, if there are any abnormal signs such as swelling or numbness, remove the buckle immediately.



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